Elements of a good relationship

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Life is a collection of relationships with family, partners, co-workers, friends, teachers… A good relationship should include communication and collaboration; there should be a sense of acceptance, happiness or positive movement in the right direction. It should contain positive emotions like honesty, kindness, support, trust and satisfaction.

 

 

Negative behaviour can creep in.

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Relationships can sometimes contain more negative emotions, including resentment, anger, unhappiness, jealousy, fear or a lack of communication/understanding. Negative emotions cause negative behaviours such as arguing, resentful actions or failure to communicate. The relationship can cease to feel rewarding or that it is achieving anything purposeful.

 

So can we change things? Yes, absolutely.

 

 

Improve a relationship

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If you want to improve a relationship with negative behaviour caused by negative emotions, then we can. We update our subconscious mind to have positive beliefs, which lead to positive behaviours.

 

When you believe in yourself, your abilities and your value as a person, you become in control of your emotions instead of your feelings railroading you and your behaviour. You can act and react with logic and emotion, feel calm and look for solutions to problems as you think positively and powerfully with good self-esteem.

 

Even if you believe the other person is the problem in the relationship, by making you feel and act differently, that person will respond differently, which includes communicating differently. 'Be the change you want to see in the world

 

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Overcome a death, trauma or breakup

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If a situation from your past is holding you back from experiencing peace or moving forward with your life, then we can change how you feel. Using PSYCH-K, we can update your subconscious mind's perception of any event, person or experience. This will leave you with peace rather than grief, trauma, sadness, anger or any other negative emotion. The memory will not be changed, only your mind's perception.

 

This can be life-changing, and it means that you are less affected by the situation and that it comes to mind much, much less than it once did, if at all. People often describe how they feel after this process with phrases like:

 

'I can think of it without crying or feeling upset.'

'I'm just not that bothered about it anymore',

'I hardly ever think of it; if I do, it's easy to think of something else.'

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Finish a relationship

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Sometimes a relationship is unhealthy and needs to end. People in this situation usually know this is true, but doubts and their situation make them unable to leave. Maybe they believe that the relationship could improve, or their partner will change, or they doubt that they will find happiness or safety elsewhere.

 

'The subconscious mind will always choose the certainly of unhappiness over the uncertainty of happiness.'

 

This means the subconscious inherently likes familiarity because it feels safe. It doesn't like change and uncertainty, even if these are the things that precede happiness and joy.

 

This part of your mind influences you with feelings of doubt and persuades you to stay where you are. We can change those beliefs to:

 

'Everything will be ok.'

'I am a worthwhile person.'

'I can do this.'

'Opportunity awaits on the other side of adversity.'

 

 

Stop sabotaging

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If you recognise a pattern of behaviour, including choosing the wrong partner or pushing the right person away, you can change these recurrent cycles of behaviour. After the initial excitement of getting together, you may realise this partner is mistreating you, perhaps like a previous partner did. The feelings of low self-worth appear, or you are made to feel responsible, yet you still need to hang on to them.

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Sabotaging behaviours begin when a partner feels jealous or insecure without cause to. They can start mistrusting or pushing away a partner for no logical reason.

 

 

Start a relationship

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If you want to find a particular person, then think about it.

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• Am I meeting/talking to people?

• If I am meeting people, do I fail to attract/meet the correct type of person?

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Confidence, self-esteem or historical experiences could influence the outcome; we can change these together.